Funny thing is that Ray posted on this website while Sandra was still living with him in her home. Notice that he states he has been widowed three times, unfortunately Sandra was not dead. Just a minor detail. Oh, and he shaved ten years off his age too.
Ray also belonged to several dating websites. He paid for a subscription to a Catholic dating website. $14.95 was automatically drafted out of his account each month. I'm not sure, but I think the Vatican frowns upon married people dating. But, hey, I could be wrong.